Interview
Why do churches and communities need to advocate for conversations between women and men to address sexual abuse?
Dr Fubara-Manuel: For too long, women have led conversations about sexual abuse with limited progress. Yet sexual abuse affects entire families, churches, and communities, making prevention everyone's responsibility. Men must be engaged as allies, since most perpetrators are men, and honest dialogue can challenge harmful patriarchal attitudes. Conversations between women and men also foster understanding, correct misconceptions, build empathy, and strengthen our collective commitment to preventing abuse.
How can Thursdays in Black help start these conversations?
Dr Fubara-Manuel: Thursdays in Black has proven to be effective in moving conversations about sexual abuse to public spaces, breaking the culture of silence. The simple act of wearing black creates opportunities for people to ask me, "Why are you wearing black?" opening the door to conversations that might otherwise never happen. Consistency is key, where everyone is committed to wearing black and being ready to invite or create spaces where women and men can discuss prevention, elimination, and support surrounding sexual abuse. Thursdays in Black materials and resources need to be simplified and translated into more languages. Intergenerational Bible study materials based on the Thursdays in Black campaign can engage people of all ages in raising awareness, encouraging meaningful conversations, and promoting the prevention of gender-based violence and sexual abuse.
What can we pray for you as you continue shining the light on these important issues?
Dr Fubara-Manuel: For God to renew my strength day by day so I may continue this calling with grace and perseverance. For courage when the work is challenging and godly collaborations when the path is lonely. For the Holy Spirit’s presence to lead and guide my every thought and action so that what I do will truly reflect God’s justice, compassion, and love. Prayers also for healing for the women with disabilities (with or without HIV) who are traumatised by sexual abuse. For families and communities broken due to the negative impacts of rape.
