Interview
With a master’s degree in counseling, Ayemi is deeply passionate about supporting vulnerable groups, particularly survivors of sexual and gender-based violence. She has practical experience working with children and women affected by trauma and abuse, and has also worked with marginalized communities, including those in slum areas.
Ayemi is committed to advocating for women and child rights, promoting justice, and addressing the systemic issues surrounding gender-based violence. She is equally dedicated to exploring how the church can unite its efforts to end injustice and become a voice for those who are often silenced.
What are the topics that you are focusing on during your studies?
Ayemi: One aspect I’m particularly passionate about is social ethics. I am exploring how faith intersects with social justice, equality, and peace-building. I am examining how the church can play a crucial role in addressing prevalent social issues. I’m especially committed to advocating for the eradication of sexual and gender-based violence, and I’m eager to see how the church can become a powerful force in promoting a more inclusive society and speaking out against injustice.
Currently, I am working on my dissertation, which focuses on why women survivors of abuse often remain silent and how the church can support them in breaking that silence. I am also exploring an ecumenical perspective on how different churches have approached this issue. I’m looking forward to see how much progress has been made in this area.
Did the time in Bossey and in contact with the WCC have an impact on your dissertation?
Ayemi: My time at Bossey and my engagement with the World Council of Churches have had a profound impact on both the topic and structure of my dissertation. The opportunity to regularly present my progress, combined with detailed feedback, proved invaluable in refining my ideas and strengthening the overall structure of my work. These consistent interactions with professors helped me develop a more focused and cohesive approach to my research.
My dissertation explores the silence surrounding sexual abuse survivors and investigates how churches can serve as places of healing for survivors. Engaging with classmates from diverse backgrounds and differing values has played a crucial role in broadening my perspective. These interactions provided me with new viewpoints on how the church can approach the healing of vulnerable individuals.
I really appreciate how the WCC staff has shown a genuine interest in my dissertation. Many offered their support, asking how they could help or suggesting ways their input could be valuable. Some even shared relevant materials to support my research. This encouragement played a significant role in helping me continue to develop my ideas and solidified my confidence in the direction I am pursuing.
How do you assess the ecumenical movement’s approach to gender-based violence in the past and today?
Ayemi: In the past, many churches largely overlooked gender-based violence, and it was not a central focus of their work. There was little recognition of the intersection between faith and the issue of gender-based violence, and in many cases, churches failed to address the harsh realities of abuse. Survivors of gender-based violence often did not receive the support they needed, and communication surrounding the issue was limited. However, today, the landscape has changed significantly. With the rise of social media and other communication platforms, there is now a much easier and broader means to share information, raise awareness, and provide support.
Currently, many churches and organizations are speaking out against gender-based violence. One prominent example is the WCC’s “Thursdays in Black” campaign, a global initiative aimed at raising awareness of gender-based violence. Wearing black on Thursdays has become a powerful symbol of solidarity with survivors. Recently, I participated in a peace-building training where people from various religious and non-Christian backgrounds also took part in the “Thursdays in Black” initiative. This is a wonderful example of how the movement is extending beyond Christian communities, inspiring solidarity across the global community.
While some churches have become more active in addressing gender-based violence, much work remains to be done. I urge churches to take this issue seriously, as the Bible teaches us to listen to the cries of the people and act in their support, particularly those who are vulnerable.
Any other topics you would like to raise?
Ayemi: Bossey has provided me with numerous opportunities to connect with influential leaders from various Christian denominations, fostering enriching interactions and valuable relationships. During events hosted by WCC, students were given the chance to take on different roles, and this hands-on involvement proved to be incredibly valuable.
In addition to our theoretical and structural studies, Bossey organized several study trips that offered us practical, real-world experiences across different Christian denominations. These trips allowed us to explore various churches, worship practices, and other faith traditions. They not only broadened my understanding but also deepened my appreciation for diverse perspective.
Currently, as I am doing my internship with the WCC, I am inspired by how Bossey continues to encourage us to make the most of every opportunity. This emphasis on fully engaging with each experience has played a significant role in my personal and professional growth.
